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How is it that some people always win an argument while others are mostly coming out of the disagreement with bad feelings? Well, there are certain mistakes that a lot of people make when trying to argue a point. One such mistake is to start raising your voice. If you do that, the argument turns into a shouting match and it is not very conducive to finding a mutually agreeable solution. Another major mistake that people do is name- calling. If you start calling your opponent offensive things, the argument moves away from the facts and goes into dealing with feelings and emotions. This is not very favorable for reaching a resolution; in fact it is driving the parties further apart. Yet another mistake that people make when they argue is to never budge from their initial opinion. Often times it is necessary to concede a little if you want to gain a lot.